How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 03:37
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
That's it for today.
Why do people still think Michael Jackson was guilty?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
What I need from you?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
What is your analysis of Walter White from Breaking Bad?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Procrastinates a lot.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Does not procrastinate.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Can you name an example of bad parenting?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Why do you think Islam oppresses women when Christianity clearly does it more?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
How did the Nazis figure out whether a person or community is 'Aryan' or not?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Hangs out with loser friends.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Did Trump show us once again that he is a master debater?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Is the Trump-Zelenskyy meeting a preview of what the US is going to do to Taiwan?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Ask yourself:
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Making more friends is a goal.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Do not set goals—set systems.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.